Raising Little Listeners

A premier Language of Listening® course for parents and teachers

(Best for those with kids ages 1-9)
JOIN Hundreds of Happy Families

It's going to change you as a parent.

"If you feel like you’re struggling with how to parent, how to deal with discipline or how to deal with tough situations, this course gives you the tools that you need to not feel like you're losing your mind. I personally felt out of control a lot, and I didn't know what to do. Because of Raising Little Listeners, I can calm myself down. I feel so empowered. The course will also grow with you. It’s going to be there for many future phases as your kids grow. And it's something that literally changes the way you think as a parent, and the way you look at your kids. It will serve you forever!" 

-- Alexia Carrillo, Raising Little Listeners Course Graduate

From 45 minute meltdowns four times a week to none. 

Before Raising Little Listeners, it was 45 minutes of the most horrific screaming, violence and hitting. I felt so helpless, so completely unequipped to do anything to help my child, that I actually started disassociating from him. I decided, "Okay, I'm going to do this course." And it stopped his meltdowns! It was earth shattering. I was so shocked at how well it worked. We no longer walk around with fear that something is going to trigger him. We know how to apply the framework, and it's such a change the happiness in our family life. It's night and day difference. 

-- Catherine Klopper, RLL Course Graduate

You can finally make sense of parenting in this crazy world.

"Parenting in this era is intense, relentless, often unforgiving and full of judgement: the expectations of our kids are sky high. Raising Little Listeners is the best framework I found to make sense of it all, and it allows me to play up my unique strengths as a parent. The variety of formats (text, video, case studies, office hours) drive home the points, and the course has many, many wonderful ideas to help you get unstuck from your ruts. It changed my perspective on my kids behavior and offered practical tools to use throughout my life and relationships. There are no quick fixes in parenthood - but if you’re ready to commit to change, this is worth every penny to help you on your path!" 

-- Sarah R., Mom of 3, Raising Little Listeners Course Graduate

Best investment one can do to lead a happier family life.

"I can warmly recommend Lauren's course to any parents who are struggling with their children's behaviour and who feel overwhelmed, frustrated, exhausted or even powerless. Lauren gives invaluable insights into the mind of a child, which makes it so much more fun to parent since you see everything from a new perspective. This allows you to react differently and in a way that can prevent many of the difficult daily situations you might have been struggling with. And it helps to strengthen the relationship with your child and to develop a sense of mutual respect and cooperation . She gives wonderful first-hand examples and responds to any worries or struggles you might be facing in the recorded office hours calls and in the case studies. I think it's the best investment one can do to lead a happier family life. Thank you a million times again for everything, Lauren!" 

-- Judith Fuhrmann, Raising Little Listeners Course Graduate

Raise your hand if...
You've Tried ALL. THE. THINGS. 
And it's exhausting!
Raise your hand if...
You've Tried 
ALL. THE. THINGS. 
And it's exhausting!

You've set rules, acknowledged feelings, made it a game, consequences...UGH!

Everything feels like an impossible fight. 

You want your child to listen the first time and stop resisting. 

You didn't used to feel so...triggered and embarrassed by your child's behavior.

 And now? 

You just want someone to tell you what to say and how to say it.

And for someone to really SEE you're giving it your best every single day. 


You've set rules, acknowledged feelings, made it a game, consequences...UGH!

Everything feels like an impossible fight. 

You want your child to listen the first time and stop resisting. 

You didn't used to feel so...triggered and embarrassed by your child's behavior.

 And now? 

You just want someone to tell you what to say and how to say it.

And for someone to really SEE you're giving it your best every single day. 

I Promise You are NOT alone.
You deserve to experience a positive method that works in real life situations - one that flexes to your parenting boundaries.

It's crazy how many "experts" are teaching how to parent young kids but gloss over the most fundamental thing that is actually key to being successful...

Can an exhausted parent easily apply it and get results?

YES! With Language of Listening® you can!
 You deserve to experience a positive method that works in real life situations - one that flexes to your parenting boundaries.

It's crazy how many "experts" are teaching how to parent young kids 
but gloss over the most fundamental thing that is actually key to being successful...

Can an exhausted parent easily apply it and get results?

YES! With Language of Listening® you can!
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This Is What Makes Raising Little Listeners Different:
The simple 3-part framework makes it easy to apply in any situation, even when you're about to go Hulk Mom.
It works with ALL children regardless of age or development level because it meets the child where they are at in the moment.
It allows you to still be your authentic self. You get to create the rules and boundaries that suit your home and family.

Get Five Easy-to-Follow Video Modules 
With Your Busy Schedule in Mind.

Get Five Easy-to-Follow Video Modules 
With Your Busy Schedule in Mind.

The lessons are designed to be finished in less than a lunch break, 
and each one includes practical, say-this-not-that takeaways.

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Module One - Understanding the Basics
  • ​Learn how to respond to your child in any situation.
  • ​Get your child to open up to your guidance without repeating yourself.
  • ​Understand the Three Basic Needs to easily shift behavior.
  • ​The 'secret sauce' to guiding kids towards loving, kind, respectful behavior.
Module Two - How to Handle Power Struggles
  • ​Learn to confidently overcome exhausting battles at home.
  • ​Uncover the secret to reversing a power struggle.
  • ​Gain a deeper understanding of the messages your child is communicating.
  • Master a simple strategy for holding boundaries when kids push, push and push some more.
Module Three - How to Handle Tantrums and Big Emotions
  • ​How to respond when kids fall on the ground crying and whining.
  • ​Discover what to say and do when your child screams "Noooooooo!!!" and runs away.
  • ​Use 'Matching the Intensity' to snap kids out of tantrums.
  • ​Learn to avoid common tantrum pitfalls.
Module Four - How to Handle Angry and Aggressive Behavior
  • ​Learn the underlying reasons for hitting, kicking and biting so you can better guide your child.
  • ​Know the best responses for when your child is having a hard time dealing with anger, frustration and anxiousness.
  • ​Empower your child to calm themselves down during angry and aggressive outbursts.
  • ​The most important thing you can do to help your child gain self-control of their anger or anxiety.
Module Five - How to Handle Back Talk and Disrespect
  • ​Step-by-step guide for straight up defiance without falling into the power struggle trap.
  • ​Help kids talk respectfully and peacefully like a pro.
  • ​Learn how to use "backing up" and "the running leap" to make sense of back talk.
  • The crucial part of Do-Overs with kids that often gets missed by parents.
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Meet Lauren Tamm - Language of Listening® Parent Coach

Meet Lauren Tamm - Language of Listening® Parent Coach


When I first became a parent, things didn't come easy. 

In fact, trying to figure out parenting was, by far, harder than anything I'd done before. 

I tried being nice, time out, punishment, explaining things, rewards, negotiating - and of course yelling. 
When I was introduced to the Language of Listening® framework our lives changed forever. 

From that moment forward, I knew I had to help parents transform their relationship with their child, too. Since 2016, I've worked directly with hundreds of families as a Language of Listening® parent coach. 

I’ve put the most important lessons together inside Raising Little Listeners. The best part? It’s the only introduction to Language of Listening® you’ll ever need.
Parents JUST LIKE YOU Have Revolutionized 
Their Relationships With Kids They Love
Parents JUST LIKE YOU Have Revolutionized 
 Relationships With Kids They Love

I feel inspired to be a mom again!

"I graduated from Brown University with a degree in Psychology. So you'd think I'd know all this child rearing stuff by heart, but no. Not so simple. Haha!! I'm starting to feel INSPIRED to be a mom, rather than dreading the constant failure. Yay you!!!!" 

- Eila T.

It's smooth sailing all day long. 

"Listening has been our biggest challenge lately. My son was flat out just ignoring our voices. I started implementing the strategies yesterday and it was such smooth sailing all day long. And it has worked wonders for my mood and frustration level when the arguing and tears are not averted. I feel so much better, as a mom. Thank you so much!"

- Ashlee Overdick

Thank you for being real!

"I felt GOOD leaving their room that night, in a good way. Smiling! Not feelings of self-condemnation or guilt. I didn't yell EVEN ONCE!!!! Seriously, I didn't think this was even possible in this lifetime!

So, THANK YOU THANK YOU for being so REAL. Not offering just cookie cutter tips, but actually relating to the moms out there, and THEN offering the tips."

- Megan R.
It's been an absolute game-changer for me and my family.

"What I love about this course is that Lauren is just like me. She's a busy mom in the trenches, doing her best for her little ones. So she gets it. But she's also done the training on how to get kids to listen, and she's taken everything she learned and applied it in real-life with her own family and with countless other families. This isn't some parenting "expert" whose kids are now 40 years old. Lauren knows what she's talking about not just because she's studied the latest research, but because she lives it every day, in her own home.

I'm so grateful to Lauren for putting this course together because it's been an absolute game-changer for me and my family. Our relationships are stronger, and our home is more peaceful than ever before."  

- Kelly Holmes, Author of Happy You, Happy Family
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Raising Kids is Hard. Let me Help.
In this step-by-step course, you'll get the lessons I learned that transformed my parenting. 

This is EXACTLY how I went from occasionally lucking out with a "sort of good day" to creating consistently peaceful days with the kids. 

I know you’re busy! These focused, practical lessons are easy to fit into your schedule and learn at your own pace.

After this course, you’ll know exactly how to respond to your child in ANY situation, set boundaries and hold them easily, and bring out the very best in your child! 
Here's Exactly What You'll Get
30 Information-Packed Videos You Can Watch at Your Own Pace
Learn it all step-by-step, as I break it down in easy to understand language. Watch me as I share a wide-range of examples to common parenting challenges with Language of Listening® solutions. Each video focuses on one topic so you can reference back to the videos you want to understand better.
12 True-to-Life Case Study Videos
I'll walk you through detailed examples of parents interacting with kids and how to respond using the Language of Listening® Framework. Even with the most difficult kid behaviors, you'll get to see how this framework works incredibly well. 
13 Additional Training Videos to Help Troubleshoot
I'll walk you through detailed examples of parents interacting with kids and how to respond using the Language of Listening® Framework. Even with the most difficult kid behaviors, you'll get to see how this framework works incredibly well. 
Printable Parenting Cheat Sheets
Each lesson comes with cheat sheets for you. Once printed, these notebook-sized cheat sheets are perfect to put on your refrigerator for easy reference. You don't need to worry about constantly going back to the course to remember main concepts.
MEGA BONUS PACK INCLUDED

80+ Deep Dive Question & Answer Sessions

Is something still confusing you? Watch me solve parenting challenges on the spot! 
Our extensive Q&A session library contains 80+ of the most common questions asked by parents, answered by me in a recorded coaching session. Search our vaults to find exactly what you need.
You deserve happy a relationship with your child. Join us! 
LIMITED TIME SPECIAL OFFER
Raising Little listeners COURSE
$
97
197
Total Value: $1,136
  • ACCESS TO RAISING LITTLE LISTENERS COURSE (Value $299)
  • 30 Information Packed Videos 
  • 5 Core Lesson Videos
  • 12 True-to-Life Case-Study Videos (Value $120)
  • 13 Additional Training Videos to Help You Troubleshoot (Value $120)
  • Printable Parenting Cheat Sheets
  • Lifetime Access 
  • Happiness Guarantee
  • PLUS, MEGA BONUS PACK - Watch me solve parenting issues on the spot! 
  • EXTRA BONUS #1:  Deep Dive Q & A Series 1 - (Value $199)
  • EXTRA BONUS #2: Deep Dive Q & A Series 2 (Value $199)
  • EXTRA BONUS #3: Deep Dive Q & A Series 3 (Value $199)
  • BONUS #4: Strong-Willed Child Workshop (Value $199)
  • BONUS #5: Stop-Yelling Workshop (Value $199)
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Beginners Guide to Manual Mode Course
Save 50% off Regular Price
Immediate Access to Our Online Classroom
  • 4 Weeks of Video Lessons + notes so you can learn at your own pace
  • 2 fun Creative Exercises to push your photography
  •  12 hours of pre-recorded Question & Answer calls
  •  Lifetime Access to all workshop materials

Regular Price: $199

TODAY ONLY: $97
Frequently Asked Questions 
How do the lessons work?
When you register I’ll send you a login that gives you immediate access to our online classroom. Welcome materials, as well as all the videos, will greet you there.

I will walk you through one lesson per week for five weeks. This helps you to build a strong foundation and implement what you learn before moving onto to the next topic.

If you want to go through all the lessons on your own, you are welcome to do so. You get immediate access to all the materials. 
I don't have a lot of time, how much time does this course require?
I get it. Finding time for an online course is hard. However, once I learned the foundation I spent less time frustrated and repeating myself and more time enjoying everyday moments with my kids.

This course is designed for those with little time. Short information packed videos helps you from feeling behind or overwhelmed. There will never be a perfect time to start guiding your child towards those behaviors you love. Why not start today?

Also, our online classroom is open 24/7. Watch the videos or read the notes when you’re ready.
What if Raising Little Listeners is not for me?
Here's the deal. I'm absolutely confident that this course will transform the way you interact with your child, handle tough parenting challenges and set boundaries. 

As a mom who was frustrated with parenting, I had to learn the hard way how raise kids who want to listen. But I found that it doesn't have to be that hard or frustrating! That's why I created this course, so any parent can quickly and easily learn how to create peaceful and cooperative moments, without the frustration that I went through. 

Go ahead and give the program a try today. I know you'll quickly feel confident and more relaxed in your day-to-day parenting with kids. 

If at any time you feel like the course isn't right for you, for any reason at all, simply let me know within 30 days of purchase and I'll happily refund 100% of your investment, no questions asked. It's our total happiness guarantee. 
What if I can't start the course right now? Should I still sign up?
Once you sign up for the course,  you get immediate access to our online classroom. You can dive into the welcome material right away. Each week, for five weeks, I focus on walking students through a new lesson. You can choose to follow along with the class or go at your own pace. You have lifetime access to this material so you can reference a particular section or the whole course again.

Please know that even if you can't start the course today, the material will be waiting for you when you are ready.
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Real Parents, Real Results.

The guidance I needed for success!

“I had been to the Language of Listening website and read Say What You See months before taking Lauren’s Raising Little Listeners course. While the book was insightful to begin with, the modules Lauren created to walk through the SWYS principles with true-to-life scenarios, coupled with her unparalleled perspective and advice in the Q&A office hours calls, provided the guidance I needed to successfully implement SWYS in a way I couldn’t before taking Raising Little Listeners.”

- Tori Neal

I'll be telling all of my moms about it.

“Oh, man. I have taken a lot of parenting courses. You know how it all accumulates over the years, and you learn so much? Somehow this one, even though it really mirrors non-violent communication ... Each step, even. It just mirrors it perfectly ... I'll be telling all of my moms who are in non-violent communication parenting groups, because one of the hardest things is empathizing with your child and validating them. We don't want to. And this course really drives it home.” 

- Michelle Barmore

Best money I ever spent.

“I'm kind of the person that will always not do things. When I saw the offer, I thought, "Eh, that's a lot of money," and I was like, "You know what? Stuff it. We're in a crisis, we're just not coping." It was the best money I ever spent. It was over and above what I ever expected. And I think because you get the course structure and all the office hours, you can continue to go back and learn again. But the office hours that you did, they were just amazing! I did all the recordings. And to me, that's when I really got it. You could hear the examples that people gave, the responses that you gave, and that kind of case study scenario I guess just really made it all click for me. So best money I've ever spent, really.” 

- Nikki T.

This course has - no kidding - revolutionized my approach to parenting.

“I would say this course has no kidding revolutionized my approach to parenting. It has given me such a perspective shift that there is ... I mean wow. It's been such a perspective shift for me that I would pay it again. I mean, I would pay double the money if I had known. If I had known from the beginning how valuable the insights were going to be from this class, I would not have hesitated for a minute. I would have jumped on with both feet even if it were twice as much because it has given me tools, practical tools to go forward in my parenting. It has not only transformed my parenting, it has transformed my relationship with my husband, my relationship with my parents and the way I view myself.

It has been like a five week intensive counseling session for me in so many ways, and the value of that is just indescribable compared to $200. If I had to pay to go and do counseling with somebody for five weeks or longer, it would have cost me so much more, and I don't even know if I would have gotten as much out of it. You are just incredibly insightful, you understand kids, and you understand the struggles of families. I would say in every aspect, it's so worth it for me definitely. I would say, 'Do it. Just do it.'”

- Amy Huber Smith

This course has - no kidding - revolutionized my approach to parenting.

“I would say this course has no kidding revolutionized my approach to parenting. It has given me such a perspective shift that there is ... I mean wow. It's been such a perspective shift for me that I would pay it again. I mean, I would pay double the money if I had known. If I had known from the beginning how valuable the insights were going to be from this class, I would not have hesitated for a minute. I would have jumped on with both feet even if it were twice as much because it has given me tools, practical tools to go forward in my parenting. It has not only transformed my parenting, it has transformed my relationship with my husband, my relationship with my parents and the way I view myself.

It has been like a five week intensive counseling session for me in so many ways, and the value of that is just indescribable compared to $200. If I had to pay to go and do counseling with somebody for five weeks or longer, it would have cost me so much more, and I don't even know if I would have gotten as much out of it. You are just incredibly insightful, you understand kids, and you understand the struggles of families. I would say in every aspect, it's so worth it for me definitely. I would say, 'Do it. Just do it.'”

- Amy Huber Smith

Out of all the parenting advice, Language of Listening and this course stuck with me more than any other method. 

“When I became a parent in 2009, I realized that parenting is the hardest job I’ve ever had to do, but one that brings me the greatest joy. Over the years, I’ve read a ton of books, listened to podcasts and webinars, bought conscious communication cards, followed bloggers, basically immersed myself in any knowledge I could cling onto to learn how to survive in my role as a parent. I learned profound concepts about positive parenting through these tools, but nothing has stuck with me since learning Language of Listening (LoL). This formula is simple and I’ve had success with it, not only with my kids, but even with family members and co-workers. Moreover, I believe that the format of this training course is what makes it most effective for me. I love Lauren’s bite sized videos that portray an example of a relatable parenting fail, followed up with an easy way to apply LoL. I loved that Lauren led the course with informative office hours. And, I love the case studies and the ability to see Language of Listening laid out through the struggles and joys of parenting.” 

- Kim Tu

Out of all the parenting advice, Language of Listening and this course stuck with me more than any other method. 

“When I became a parent in 2009, I realized that parenting is the hardest job I’ve ever had to do, but one that brings me the greatest joy. Over the years, I’ve read a ton of books, listened to podcasts and webinars, bought conscious communication cards, followed bloggers, basically immersed myself in any knowledge I could cling onto to learn how to survive in my role as a parent. I learned profound concepts about positive parenting through these tools, but nothing has stuck with me since learning Language of Listening (LoL). This formula is simple and I’ve had success with it, not only with my kids, but even with family members and co-workers. Moreover, I believe that the format of this training course is what makes it most effective for me. I love Lauren’s bite sized videos that portray an example of a relatable parenting fail, followed up with an easy way to apply LoL. I loved that Lauren led the course with informative office hours. And, I love the case studies and the ability to see Language of Listening laid out through the struggles and joys of parenting.” 

- Kim Tu

The way Lauren instructs the course is brilliant.

“When I put in perspective, the money we spent gave us a happier family life, an easier household so we're all on the same page, and the confidence to know what we're doing. It was well worth it. 

And time wise, the way that Lauren instructs the course is brilliant. The lessons the perfect length for a busy parent. I just keep going back to it when I needed to. The fact we've got the lifetime access to the course materials gave me a lot of reassurance. You can always revisit it! That's perfect for me.” 

- Ellen Clayton

The way Lauren instructs the course is brilliant.

“When I put in perspective, the money we spent gave us a happier family life, an easier household so we're all on the same page, and the confidence to know what we're doing. It was well worth it. 

And time wise, the way that Lauren instructs the course is brilliant. The lessons the perfect length for a busy parent. I just keep going back to it when I needed to. The fact we've got the lifetime access to the course materials gave me a lot of reassurance. You can always revisit it! That's perfect for me.” 

- Ellen Clayton
Happiness Guarantee
Give Raising Little Listeners a try for 30 days, 100% RISK-FREE!
Here's the deal. 

I'm absolutely confident that this course will transform the way you interact with your child, handle tough parenting challenges and set boundaries. 

If at any time you feel like the course isn't right for you, for any reason at all, simply let me know within 30 days of purchase and I'll happily refund 100% of your investment, no questions asked. 

It's our total happiness guarantee. 
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